A self-confident man, with a good sense of humor, kind, intelligent and physically attractive. That he is attentive, respectful and shows genuine interest in his thoughts and feelings also appeals to me.
Turns Off
Lack of respect and poor communication. Being too aggressive, selfish, or inconsiderate can also be a major rejection factor. Negative traits such as excessive jealousy, laziness, and lack of ambition can further diminish attraction.