I find sexual pleasure in deep connection and emotional intimacy. I love exploring every facet of sensuality with someone who values open communication and mutual respect. Subtle seduction excites me enormously. Foreplay is crucial for me.
Turns Off
Lack of communication is a big demotivator for me. I value an open and honest conversation, and it frustrates me when someone is not able to express what they feel or think. Dishonesty is another key factor; if you can't be honest with me, then there is no solid foundation on which to build something meaningful.
I like to listen and I want to be with someone who is a good listener and has the ability to put themselves in my shoes. Lack of emotional support and indifference are a red flag for me.